So I'm meant to spend the whole of today blogging but network is really limiting me,and it sucks.I don't think anyone living under the radar of the sun would not have heard about the Ibrahim Balogun ( tbills) and his wife's Tiwatope Savage Balogun (Tiwas savage's) saga,if I can call it that,I dint carry the news at first because I wanted to be sure it wasn't something for showbiz,my sister called me that morning and was like "sister mi have you heard about tbills ranting on Ig,and she was like I know you don't carry news like this but you really should carry this",.when I was reading all of tbill's rants,all i was just thinking about was why is no one talking about Tiwa,and I found it quite shocking how people without even hearing the story from both sides started throwing shades,and blaming one party and ,for Christ sake you don't live with them.
So here I'll be candid and I will talk as a concerned fan also,I will start from Tbills,really i don't know if this social media media of a thing has a spirit attached to it,people just find it very comfortable posting stuffs,go on rants and after the episode they expect everything to just get better and be the way it was...no! life doesn't happen like that,he is a man and matters like that should not even have been brought to the public eye at all,how will he walk freely after this?,does he think Nigerians will forget all he said?,they were just too much,and i noticed he dint take a blame for all his problems,he kept on blaming people...really you cant not have a hand in your downfall,I wont castigate him further I just sincerely prays he finds peace with God which is the most important,and may he find all the help he needs to bounce back.
My dear aunty Tiwa,everyone who knows me and my music knows I'm a huge Tiwasoldier,her video with pulse actually propelled me into writing this,one question I would like to ask is throughout the marriage was there never a day when she was happy?,because talking in the video it was just as if she had a sad marriage where she was bullied,some people actually thought she wasn't meant to talk that much,but Tbillz has ruined her career and her image to an extent,she had to vindicate herself,I'm in no place to judge but she did what she had to even though she should not have said some things too,but why put up the we are perfect look when everything is actually in chaos in their home,watching the video,as a lady I was pained because no woman wants a bad marriage as we all want our happily ever,and she talked about having a miscarriage if you ask me everything happens for a reason because I cant imagine her carrying his baby and all this happened,she would have been more traumatized.She should have known marriage is not an all rosy matter,there are days when she would have to bear all the responsibilities and still tell the whole world her husband is bae,but one thing I also caught from the video is that through all this she hasn't spoken with him,is that even right?,you praying for him if your heart is not right with him is just the same thing as cursing him.I cant belive any of them 100percent because they are both humans and nobody will take the full blame.
To everyone who uses people you don't even know what they go through in their personal lives as models,God help you,a friend of mine is always saying,"I don't aspire or wish to be like someone else because no matter how perfect they seem to the world you don't know the demons they are all fighting". Which is really true,the couple you are gushing about also have their problems.Just be the best version of you,don't let the jonzy life of celebrities fool you.
Is this really the end of the Baloguns'?,I pray they both find joy and peace and the spirit to settle all this and put it all behind,and they should always consider the welfare of their son in all this because soon the boy will be able to read and go on social media and trust me they would have a lot of explaining to do.
Let me know what you think,and do have a wonderful weekend.
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