Wednesday, 9 March 2016

INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY;IS IT WORTH CELEBRATING??...

I know many jaws dropped at my caption,i have my reasons tho which is why i am i making this post.So yesterday march 8th was International Women's Day which was celebrated almost everywhere around the world,and it got me thinking about  how women supposedly support each other.
I have gotten to tell people on few occassions that there are a lot of women out there with lots of potentials but who are scared of coming out because of what people will say about them or how their idea will be badly bashed,do you know who they are scared of the most?,
women like them!,yes,have you ever wondered why men make it out there than women?it is because they help eachother get up most times,they help themselves and don't defy their *bro code*.I wont talk about women generally but i will talk about my generation,yes the women in my generation whose hobby is taking another person down,who finds delight in bodyshaming another woman rather than helping her get comfortable in her own skin,the women in my generation i am so eager to see when we will start being mothers,what we will teach our children,and the things which are uncool but will teach to our children that they are *cool*.
To any woman reading this who has being shamed by another woman,i wont say sorry because i stopped being a member of pity parties,but really will you let that voice stop you from doing what you want?,you will let that voice stop you from wearing what you want or living your life the way you want to?,i have been there and i am still there,i closed my first blog because of snide comments from mostly women,dont give power to the voice of the haters,that voice din't create or make you,it doesnt contain you,it wont contain you,make that voice inaudible today and stand up for what you believe in,most of these people hide behind being mean because they are actually weak.
To all the Omni-knoweths who know nothing better than bringing other women down i applaud you,karma is real,but stop pulling another woman down,most times your words hurt than even actions,stop being the worst enemy of another woman,stop being another woman's nightmare.
And to all my women who appreciate the work and effort of another women,you are the real deal,i have a lot of them around me,even though some are far away that i cant give them a hug everytime,some are close and i lean on them,thanks for lending me your shoulders,to everywoman making a difference,who are not scared of competition,who are comfortable in their own skins,who dont depend on the man factor,who believe in themselves,and who are making things happen i celebrate you.
To every woman out there be thankful because you are a woman and it is a privilege,be better,be fearless, be original,be you,be cheerful,be nice,be polite,be an helping hand,be in charge,take control,be hungry for success,be careless,be careful,be a beast for something you believe in,be a queen who supports another queen.
#bye queens.

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