Joro Olumofin makes common sense sometimes, and this time he really gained my attention, although I'm not saying he is totally right because if cheating is in a man's blood nothing except God's intervention can keep him, and no side chick can steal a man who wants to be kept.
But still this article should be an eye opener for some with eyes closed...If this doesn't help you,then I don't know what else will...
Remember to ask yourself why side chicks are winning.....what are they doing right?
Sexually Progressive -
Most
Side-chicks are more sexually exposed and enlightened than wives,
Sidechicks are willing to take more risks and use every single organ of
their body to please a man. Meanwhile some wives are very Comfortable
with only missionary style from January to December , they frown at a
lot of things. E.g. I received a mail last month where a husband woke
his wife up in the middle of the night and asked her for sex in the car,
she replied him and said why are we paying all this rent money to have
sex in the car. Do I look like a university girl to you?
The husband got so upset, went to the toilet to masturbate. A Side chick would never say NO to sex in the car even at 3am.
Body Goals / Physique:
Body Goals / Physique:
A wife has a
lot of responsibilities.Managing a home, raising children, running her
business, catering for her husbands needs / chores. She doesn't have
time or luxury to have body goals or even Join a gym, hence she begins
to look like a GrandMa or an Aunty. Most wives assume the role of
mothers 1000% forgetting about their looks and their husbands needs. On
the other hand, Sidechicks sleep in the gym, slay for breakfast and
dinner, have flat a belly and look exactly like a mans fantasy.
Some wives are not Prayer warriors, their prayers are face validity alone, they don't have a "War Room Mentality" :
Some wives are not Prayer warriors, their prayers are face validity alone, they don't have a "War Room Mentality" :
A lot of
Sidechicks have Spiritual and marine spirit backing and are on a mission
to destroy homes and take everything for themselves. They use charms
and all sorts to seduce husbands. Some wives have already lost the
battle before it began because they don't have a deep rooted
relationship with God neither can they fast for 40 days or more for
their family's sake. They want Pastors to fight their battles for them
instead of intending to the issue personally.
Mental Masturbation :
Mental Masturbation :
Make a man
feel like a king even if he's broke or hasn't paid the children's school
fees. Most husbands avoid their homes because it reminds them of a
reality they want to avoid. ( their failures, responsibilities, duties,
obligations etc) Wives are very good at putting their husbands in
reality check by nagging and making him feel less of a man. E.g. You
haven't paid Jnrs School fees, we haven't paid the mechanic, the rent is
due, generator is bad, when are you getting a new job? , make sure you
enroll for your masters. All these questions kill a mans Ego. When he is
with his Mistress she has no business with these questions and she
makes him feel like King Kong.
Men are like babies.
Men are like babies.
They want
everything new and shiny : Sidechicks are in tune with what's going on
in town, the new songs, the new bars/clubs , new attires men are
wearing, new hair cut, new sex positions, new slangs.
When a man
hangs out with his mistress he feels likes a young boy again, he feels
like a university boy, she tells him to grow his beard, she tells him "
who you epp" , she calls him " end time bae" , " Recession boy" things
he has never heard before. But when he gets home his wife says " Good
Morning Akin, how are you?" She makes dinner reservations for him at the
same restaurant he has been to 1000 times. He starts looking at his own
home as basic.
Twerking :
Twerking :
As silly
and ordinary as the word "twerking" may be. Twerking is a reason for a
lot of friction in relationships. Based on direct observation and
hundreds of mails received . Some Husbands want their wives to twerk,
some wives are either horrible at twerking or they think it's beneath
them. Hence there is a conflict. When a man finds a lady who can twerk
for him daily he's dissatisfied with his wife and home. He starts seeing
his wife as a bore. (maybe for the boyfriends sha)
Slay :
Slay :
As i
mentioned earlier in point number 1, wives are very busy with a lot of
responsibility. Hardly would you see a wife spend 200k on a pair of
louboutins when she's got school fees to pay, salary and rent.
Sidechicks are real life Beyoncé and Kim k. They wear the best and look
the best. Because of this , husband are more inclined to takes their
Mistresses out on dates more than their wives. A husband once told me,
my wife can not even slay to kill a rabbit. "She will be wearing Aldo
& Micheal kors upandan "
Summary:
Nothing can stop a man from cheating or having a million Mistresses. A wife can slay for breakfast, lunch and dinner and her husband still sleeps around. This article only highlights the reasons why some husbands act the way they do, in Psychology personality can not be changed once fully formed but only managed or curtailed based current variables.
Summary:
Nothing can stop a man from cheating or having a million Mistresses. A wife can slay for breakfast, lunch and dinner and her husband still sleeps around. This article only highlights the reasons why some husbands act the way they do, in Psychology personality can not be changed once fully formed but only managed or curtailed based current variables.
Be the best you can be as a wife and leave the rest to God. The areas where you think you're lacking, meet up.
___@joroolumofin
___@joroolumofin
PSYCHOLOGIST AND BLOGGER
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